Nanny

Yes we want a nanny.  No we do not think it is superior to taking a child to daycare and no thank you, we really don't want to hear all sides of all arguments of stay at home vs nanny vs relative watching baby vs daycare.  This is just what we are comfortable with as we do not have family that live near us and we as husband/wife made this decision together.

Also- if it were as simple as "doing more with less" believe me I would be all about it.  The do more with less was a tip given to yuppy Mommy as YM was looking for some encouragement about going back to work.  Yep its 

that simple to walk away from co car/gas (YM has not had a car payment in 10 years), stock options, 401k match, great health ins, quarterly and annual bonuses - especially when husband is self employed and on Mommy's benefits and sometimes has crummy clients that don't pay or are way way behind on their bill- it is nice to have Mommy's steady pay coming in. :)

That is my YM vent for the day but just saying it's not like this mommy has a job that is Hourly only with no benefits that would be easy to quit to SAH - it is a little more complicated